Rekindling the Fire

Creativity is the name of the game.

Marriage can really take it's toll on a once-hot relationship. especially when the couple gets caught up in the relentless demands of work and family. If you think your sex life needs a little spark, re-inject intimacy with these creative tricks.

Set the mood..

1. Call your man at work just before he leaves the office, in your sexiest voice, tell him how much you'd like for him to come home early tonight.
   
2. Insert a note in his lunch bag that says you can't wait to do some hanky-panky with him later. hide a can of whipped cream in the lunch bag.
3. When your kids are at a sleepover with friends, leave a trail of petals or intimate apparel on the floor leading to your bedroom. he'll get the idea.

Play mind games with hubby all day. tease him that he will get a surprise gift from you if he is "well behaved" all day.

...and the ambiance

1. Change all the bed sheets, pillowcases and blankets to encourage a naughty tumble. for added measure, play light instrumental music.
2. Enhance the romantic mood with scented candles or oils. A simple oil burner costs less but offer a sensuous scents such as lavender, jasmine or sage.
3. If making love at home is too routine, book a weekend getaway for two. A hotel room or a resort cottage or anywhere that doesn't resemble your bedroom will do.